They don’t know their Mother

Last month, I witnessed an innovation in Manhattan perhaps better left un-invented, though my daughter loved the idea. It was a cupcake ATM, not far from the hotel where we stayed while looking at colleges. A cupcake ATM is just as it sounds. Walk up, punch a few buttons, swipe Mom’s credit card, and out pops a cupcake in a tiny cardboard box.

Cupcake ATMThis seemed wrong on so many levels.

IMG_2498Where is the anticipation of walking into a bakery filled with choices? Where is the bliss of smelling the freshly baked breads, cookies, and pastries? Seeing the variety, all lined up in the glass case in front of you and on the shelves behind the bakers? What about the banter with the lady behind the counter? The chance to ask questions? Watching the lady lift your specific choice with that small piece of waxy paper – no, that one over there – and carefully place it in a white paper bag?

The cupcake ATM was a disturbingly long way from my bakery experiences as a child. Our local bakeries were dotted all over town, right in residential neighborhoods. Yindra’s was Czech and had the best kolaches; another was famous for wedding cakes. My personal favorite was the Fronk’s Bakery, because Mrs. Fronk was my fourth-grade teacher, my favorite teacher. Sometimes she’d give me a free cookie. Our town was populated mostly with central Europeans so the bread tended to be mostly wheat, pumpernickel, farmer’s, and rye – with and without caraway seed. Occasionally we’d see the exotic French, Vienna, or sourdough. Nowadays, local bakeries are largely replaced by grocery chains with their bakery departments and prepackaged breads made who knows where. We’ve lost an important social connection.

Steve Graycarek's (my maternal grandfather) threshing machine. 1920's.

Steve Graycarek’s (my maternal grandfather) threshing machine. 1920’s.

But even worse, it is one more step down the path toward disconnection from the source of our food and the land that produced it. Even as a kid, I understood that Mrs. Fronk used ingredients like flour and eggs and milk to make the cookie she gave to me, and fresh raspberries to dot the cake in the window. And I knew that those ingredients came from food grown on local farms. I knew people who had chickens (my Aunt Emma), and grew raspberries (my grandmother and, later, Mom and Dad). As a young man, my grandfather had a threshing machine, traveling around Manitowoc County helping farmers thresh their grains.

Grandpa Di and Nanc w fishEvery year, my dad ordered a half a cow from a farmer friend. The local butcher cut it into manageable pieces, and delivered it to our house in large metal pans. But it was we, as a family, that wrapped the slabs of meat in white butcher paper, weighed out the hamburger into 2 pound packages, and labeled everything before placing it all in the freezer.

Dad and Grandpa fished Lake Michigan regularly, not for pleasure, but to put food on the table. We ate whatever they caught. To this day, I would take a plate of fried Lake Perch over any kind of fish or seafood.

My sister still cans from her garden, using some of our parent's recipes.

My sister still cans from her garden, using some of our parent’s recipes.

We had big gardens and we canned tomatoes, pickles, beets, even sauerkraut. In my first job as a kitchen helper at the Manitowoc County Hospital, I canned hundreds of jars of pickles from cucumbers grown in the big county garden. Multiple times a week, I helped bake bread for 500 patients. I picked raspberries in the vast gardens and served them to patients for supper each night while the picking was good. I was blessed to know where food came from.

The average American family consumes more “food” from boxes and cans than fresh. Now there are children that think cupcakes come from ATMs and believe that supper comes from a fast food place – but not much beyond that. They don’t understand the connection to the land and the people who grew the food.

protesters at county council from Kerri Petersen MarksOn the Big Island, we get that connection at a deep level. We talk a lot about food. Being on an island, we worry about disruptions to our food supply, because we cannot sustain ourselves for very long without the barges. So we think about food and how to improve our sustainability. We’ve had lots of conversations about stopping GMO crops here, and our County Council managed to pass a ban on all new GMO plantings. It’s under dispute, but that’s to be expected.

My friend Mitch with his Chinese cabbage

My friend Mitch with his Chinese cabbage

This passion about food make us appreciate it. Many of us garden and we share produce. There’s an intensity of interest in food here that didn’t exist in any other place I’ve lived. We love fresh food and we value the land on which it grows. We appreciate Earth. We know she is our Mother.

Food for thought on Earth Day.


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About Diane Scheurell

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13 Responses to They don’t know their Mother

  1. Dianne says:

    Love this article. Thanks Diane for another thoughtful and inspiring post.

  2. L'il Sis says:

    Love this blog, and happy to contribute the picture. We are ever grateful to Mother Earth for the bounty she provides. There’s nothing better than a Nana pickle, and the happy little faces crunching them!

  3. Malia True says:

    Excellent blog. I finally completed my bromeliad garden (among other things). Wait til you see it. Mahalo!

  4. Holly Gruentzel says:

    Thank you for the stroll down memory lane, I am also from Manitowoc and remember all the bakeries you mention and a childhood much like you describe. A wonderful, thought provoking article.

  5. Nancy says:

    It’s fun to read some of the old essays and the responses.

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